With our primary mission being to increase awareness of the signs, symptoms and methods of detection of ovarian cancer, Judy’s Mission is very proud of our signature program Survivors Teaching Students: Saving Women’s Lives ® (STS).  Created and administered by Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance (OCRA), Judy’s Mission partners by facilitating the one hour STS classroom course which  allows ovarian cancer survivors to share their experiences with medical and nursing students in the greater Houston area.   Survivors discuss their symptoms, doctors’ visits, diagnosis, misdiagnosis and eventual detection, treatment and current status.  Now in our fifth year of presenting this program, we are striving to reach every future health professional and send them into their medical practices with the knowledge and ability to recognize a possible ovarian cancer case.

I started facilitating STS classes seven months ago and I am amazed at how grateful and receptive the students are to learn that there is no screening for ovarian cancer and that the symptoms are very common and very frequently attributed to less serious, more easily treated ailments.  These students leave the class prepared to recognize a patient who should be tested for ovarian cancer.  They appreciate the survivors’ perspective and feel that the lesson of a “live case study” is a great enhancement to their curriculum.

In the first four years of the program, Judy’s Mission impacted approximately 300 students per year with 15-17 presentations to 9 campuses for a total of 1,200 students.  For the 2018- 2019 calendar year we are on target to double the number of students served each year. This year we have increased our presence to include 14 school campuses with 11 classes scheduled in spring and 11 classes schedule in the fall.  Several schools are scheduled for this summer as well.  This will mean more practicing doctors and nurses who are able to recognize an ovarian cancer patient at an earlier stage of the disease.

Several survivors, many students and I have said that if this class saves one life, it is worth it.  But, our hope, at Judy’s Mission, is that, as more future healthcare practitioners know the STS course material, the statistics for early detection and >5yr survival will significantly improve.

If you know of a medical, nursing, PA, nurse practitioner or other program in which graduates will be working with patients, please comment on this post or contact Judy’s Mission, so we can be sure all medical professionals are armed with this important, life-saving information.   And, if you are an ovarian cancer survivor or know a survivor who wants to make this significant difference by sharing her story, comment or contact us also.

“Nobody understands.”  I’ve heard that said by people in grief about the loss of a loved one, after a frightening experience, like abuse, military service, victim of a crime, and of course about being diagnosed with and dealing with cancer.   Research has found that patients with more social support tend to feel less anxious and depressed and report a better quality of life. People with cancer find it encouraging to have others who listen and help with the practical aspects of dealing with cancer.

Coincidentally, while I was preparing this blog post, a woman, who is currently battling ovarian cancer, contacted me about helping get her husband in touch with another husband who had recently lost his wife to ovarian cancer.  She said her husband feels that, “nobody understands” and he needs to talk to someone who has experienced what he is currently experiencing

This blog is about the value of support groups and the benefits of talking and telling all about your ovarian (or any) cancer experience.  These groups can supply much needed information/education or they can be therapeutic, fostering hope and/or acceptance or they can be a combination of both.

I spoke to a professional support group facilitator, a cancer survivor who was both facilitator and participant of a (ley-led) group and a participant who has been in support groups both as a newly diagnosed and currently as a recurrent cancer patient.  Here is what they had to say.

Alycia Hughes is the Senior Patient Affairs Specialist at MD Anderson (MDA).  As such, she facilitates a monthly support group, at MD Anderson.  Her group is primarily educational.  She brings in outside speakers, mostly medical professionals who work with cancer patients to present useful and necessary information to patients.

Alycia touts the merits of support groups specific to your specific disease.  She says treatments and psychosocial issues for ovarian cancer are different from those of other gynecologic cancers.  She says, when seeking a support group, some things to look for are a group that meets regularly, at a convenient time and setting.  She points out that there are support groups that include spouses and caregivers and you should determine if you want a group for patients only.

Barbara Garvin is 10+ years ovarian cancer survivor who, after hearing all the experts at the MDA support group, started her own group, in her home, to provide and more intimate, more therapeutic support group.  That group has since dissipated and she is back at a group at MDA.

Barbara says of her support group, “the caring and sharing was phenomenal!  Feeling safe to talk about aspects of the disease you couldn’t share with loved ones came easy.  We marveled just how effortless it was to talk about our bowel movements with each other.  We all were inspired with a new zest for life, (were) more hopeful and encouraged, felt less lonely, stressed and (less) depressed.  Your support group can literally become your lifeline and empower you.”

She says she continues to go to support group to inspire newly diagnosed women, for the camaraderie, to learn.  She goes to receive and give support.  “Mostly, I go to spread the Love.”

Janet Little is one of our Faces of Ovarian Cancer spotlight cancer survivors.  She was also one of the founders of the Teal Tales support group, that was a support group for ovarian cancer patients, survivors, spouses and caregivers.  She is currently a participant in the “Life in Between” group, for all cancer patients (breast, ovarian, pancreatic, etc), that meets at the wonderful Canopy center in the Woodlands.

The Life in Between group is a ley-led group, currently (coincidentally) comprised of only women.  Janet says that is what she likes about it.  “We laugh a lot and share stories and just everyday things.  We all get the seriousness of our disease but don’t take ourselves too seriously.  However, we are there for each other when one of us is going through tough times.  The women are welcoming.”

She says, when she was newly diagnosed, knowing the stories and experiences of those with recurrences gave her so much hope.  Cancer treatments can be so isolating and anxiety provoking.  Having someone who has walked that path before you and understands exactly what you are feeling and fearing is priceless.

If you are afflicted with ovarian cancer, you are not alone.  So, don’t try to go it alone.  To find a support group that is right for you, speak to your oncologist or a social worker at your hospital or treatment center or, talk to other patients receiving treatments around you or check out these websites:  https://www.mdanderson.org/patients-family/diagnosis-treatment/patient-support/support-groups.html or  https://www.cancer.org/treatment/support-programs-and-services.html.   Or post on this blog.